Thankfully we reached our destination safe and sound. We were both totally exhausted after being on the road for almost 24 hours. At least we didn't have to worry about a hotel since my nephew and our future family, the Nevels, were able to accommodate us for a few days.
Mom's shoulder wasn't any better; therefore, Monday morning September 11 on her birthday we headed to a nearby urgent care center. After a check up, mom was referred to a bone specialist, Advanced Bone & Joint, nearby. We tried to get her shoulder pain resolved the same day, but encountered insurance issues at the latter. In addition, they were fully booked. An arm sling, pain killer, and ice were a temporary relief until Tuesday morning. Not how I wanted mom to spend her birthday in Missouri, but we made the best of it.
Unfortunately the x-rays revealed mom had a severe case of calcific tendonitis. The doctor told us to return the next day for treatment, but I didn't hesitate to tell him what we had gone through and the reason we were in Missouri. He immediately had a change of heart and injected her shoulder with cortisone so she would feel better by wedding day. What a painful injection. I couldn't help in crying as mom screamed during the process.
I prayed the injection worked quickly. In the meantime, we had to try to be at ease and enjoy the time with our family before checking into our hotel. By Wednesday morning, mom was feeling better, and we were on our way to the hotel. She was happy that she would be able to comply with her cooking for the wedding rehearsal dinner. I, of course, helped in the food preparation knowing she was still recovering.
In between all of this, we were aware of Hurricane Irma's trajectory. Irma indeed passed through Tampa as a category 1 hurricane. We were grateful nothing dramatic happened besides losing electricity for a few days, lots of fallen branches, and damaged trees. It all boiled down to, that by the time we headed back to Florida, September 18, we would have no problem on the drive back especially driving through wherever Irma had passed.
Wedding rehearsal dinner was delicious. Mom successfully fulfilled her part of the menu - pulled pork 'Boricua style,' arroz con gandules (rice with pigeon peas), and potato salad.
By wedding day, September 16, mom was much better. A big relief that she was able to bless her first grandson before he wed, I captured some amazing shots, and we both witnessed our Josh marry his love, Megan.
Before we knew it, we were packing Sunday to hit the road back home Monday morning. Once again, we kept informed via social media how things were at least in Tampa. But I had faith that it would be a smooth ride, and yes it was!
What an emotional roller coaster in all respects. Obstacles that unexpectedly emerged forcing me to make quick decisions, and or resolve immediately. And to remember, I followed my instincts. Mom had immediate medical care that probably wouldn't have been possible if we stayed in Tampa, and I didn't have to worry of her breathing with loss of electricity at home. By the way, we had electricity when we arrived.
Update: Mama is slowly getting better, and I'm at ease that she is, it has been a lil rough, and I've tried to stay strong but God willing all will fall back in place. Just grateful I went with my instincts because if we were back home her shoulder treatment probably would have been delayed, she would have panicked with no electricity, and not breathe well, my instincts never fail me. Have a blessed day mi gente hermosa xoxo
Dori Hermosa is with Megan Kay Irizarry and Joshua Irizarry.
How hurting when your mom is in excruciating pain on your way out of harms way, run from doctor to doctor with health insurance cards left behind and then to be
diagnosed with calcium build up well a clump in her shoulder. But worse is to hear her screams and cries as her shoulder is being injected with cortisone to the point you cry with her. The doctor wanted it done today so she'd be feeling better for wedding day. Thank you to the doctors and nurses that helped, accommodated, and comforted us at Advanced Bone & Joint and Mercy Urgent Care the last two days. Thank you Lord for the angels we've dealt with since we left Tampa and praying mom is at least 99% healed so we all can have a memorable and great wedding ♥>! Ready to write a book - Hermosa's Irma/Wedding ventures
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A year later, I'm still grateful to many people - all the emergency and non-emergency personnel that traveled to Florida and the affected areas by Hurricane Irma, the medical personnel that tended to mom in St. Peters, the Nevels for their hospitality, Brook Stephens at Sleep Inn in Cartersville, GA, and last but not least my nephew Joshua and his wife Megan who will be celebrating their one year anniversary September 16.
Happy Anniversary Megan & Joshua Irizarry
September 16, 2017